Getting out
Everyone spends their sentence thinking about the release date. Almost nobody plans for what happens after it, and the after is longer and in some ways harder than the inside.
This covers the
Twelve parts, written to be read in order. The rest of this page is the front matter: when to start, what this does not cover, and the four things that matter most.
Start planning at eighteen months out, not at six
The single most common mistake is treating release as a finish line rather than a project with dependencies. Housing depends on approval. Approval depends on having an address. Employment depends on documents. Documents depend on other documents. Each step takes weeks, and several of them cannot start until a prior one finishes.
People who begin this work while they are still inside land considerably better than people who begin it in the parking lot.
A note on scope
The four things that matter most
If you read nothing else:
The twelve parts
Where this guide starts
This one picks up at the door on the way out. What happens on the way in is Before you go in, what happens between the two is While you're in, and the version written for the person on the outside is For families.
If you are still inside, most of part 3 onward is work someone can start on your behalf now. That is the point of starting at eighteen months.
These pages cover the general rules. Your situation has details they don't. Email me a question. Answers are free, and "you don't need to pay anyone for this" is my most common answer.
I answer in the order received, usually within a couple of days. I have a day job. If your situation genuinely needs more than an email, I take a limited number of consults, so say so and we'll work it out.
Somebody else is counting down to the same door. Pass it on.